Jan 18, 2017 · I have been with my husband for 14 and married to him for the last 3 years. On thanksgiving I found out that he was sleeping with his step daughter from a previous marriage during the end of his first marriage and the first two years of our relationship. (He was 26y and she was 15y) Even at one point had sex with her in my basement. Apr 18, 2013 · My husband continues to drift away from God and me and has now asked me for a divorce but I refused, and so he said he would file. This has been a shock for me as its only been seven months since he left but it seems he has been a living double life much longer than I’ve known. hence no return to the family or the marriage or to God.