Oct 10, 2005 · Hi, my name is Josephine and I’m 27 yrs old, I’ve been going out wiv my boyfriend Martin for 6months, he is a really good guy, and every thing I wanted in a man, but I keep pushing him away when we get serious, I’m wondering if it’s coz of my past and being hurt so much, my ex was controlling, a bully, violent physically and emotionally and I lost my two children because of it all, I ... Nov 16, 2010 · Even though my wife tried to always be by my side,only time would tell as we couldn't cope with pressure coming from friends and she had to leave me for another man. I was now left to face my problem alone even though my mom would always talk to me and console me on phone. Things went from bad to worse when i was sacked from the private ...